Project style managing

[slopy]

I am writing a program that I need to be the same for all versions of windows and all styles of windows xp. Of couse if the user has something like a windows style that makes the title bars grey that's ok, but my main concern is one of my testers reported that my program is very distorted in their environment. Due to the users change in default font styles and size, my program's command buttons and labels appear cut off and my controls are all mis-aligned and different random sizes.

How can I tell my program to use the style built in the ide and not the user's own very messed up style?

Thanks.