criticised about the kind of questions you ask.
I'm lost. I've re-read the thread but I cant quite see what point this relates to, in any post. Perhaps you'd like to outline what you think is a criticism so we can be more sensitive to your needs?
How do you expect people like me to ask q's
I usually find that setting out a list of facts of where I am, making a statement about the goal I'm trying to reach, and perhaps a few words on what I've already tried or solutions I have envisaged, best empowers respondents to assess:
Whether I have formed a workable solution
The problem with my solution
A better solution
Given that I'm asking other programmers about a programming problem, I find that a woolly, over-wordy, indirect or confused statement doesnt work well. Short sentences with one purpose, just like the programs we create, work best
I also ensure that I include at least one sentence that terminates with a question mark; you'd be amazed how many posts I see where the OP just talks about the stage they are at leaving us non the wiser as to whether they actually have a question. End of the day, the advice you get here is free, so it's good etiquette to provide as much supporting information as you would like to receive in a solution. If you want a wone word answer, write a one line question. If you want a fully guided list of points including cocde samples, provide a similar effort when asking your question. Writing "My program's crashing; what's wrong?" wont elicit a very helpful repsonse.
(I write this as a genuine and sincere response to your post, because you state "I have a question" but your post *doesnt* actually contain a question mark!
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if you gonna shoot them down.
End of the day, I personally dont find anything outlandish about this particular debate - and that's precisely what forums are for; Discussion. Everyone here in this thread who isnt running around saying "oh, i'm so hurt by the nasty way the internet is" has potentially learned something - e.g. nearly every time JohnH speaks, I learn something and I really value that his differing opinions are strong enough to stand up to mine, because there are times when I'm not asking him for information, but debating with him. (I know it seems like I single out John here, but genuinely, he stands out in my mind as most often the only person who answers the questions I ask)
If youre new to the internet, or maybe just social interaction with a wide variety of people that includes the cynical, sarcastic type who dont exist to bend over backwards to ensure that youre happy above answering your question, then I strongly suggest that you man up a little and accept this sort of thing for what it is; debate, discourse, conflicting opinions, call it argument if you want - the important thing is that people learn, and they go on with their day without sulking because someone in a different time zone expressed an contra-opinion in a way they didnt like
Now to the C# guy i don't know if this is what you're looking for, but I press "Control" and Enter at the same time.
See, you could have totally just made that point, without putting the previous 3 lines of complaining in there; such complaints tends to make long-time (read: cynical) internet users suspect that youre merely one of the original posters, re-registered under a new nick to "provide support" to "another" individual who feels hard done to. Thanks for the input, because it's something that puzzled me about VB intellisense for a long time