First, it is poor form to attach an executable file anyway. You may be trust-worthy but we don't know that.
Second, you can get the colors used for various aspects of windows using the SystemColors class. For instance, the current color of the title bar can be accessed via SystemColors.ActiveCaption. The members of SystemColors can be used as colours so if you are using a Label to represent your title bar you simply use
titleBarLabel.BackColor = SystemColors.ActiveCaption
Note that this is for the active window. There is an InactiveCaption colour too, as there is an ActiveCaptionText colour and an InactiveCaptionText colour. It can get complex if you want to do it properly this way.
As a further point of extreme interest, if you set the BorderStyle of a form to None, your window is not resizable and you lose all border. I read, and tested, recently that if you set the ControlBox property to False and the Text property to an empty string, you lose the title bar and the coloured border but you can still have a 3D border and your form can be resizable, depending on the BorderStyle property.