disposed object

I have a MDI based application with two problems. First: when i close the MDI child i want to ask if the user would like to save the data in the child and give them the regular choice yes,no,cancel however when i try to use the Formclosing event it never fires, it does fire for the mdi parent...

This a code to load a form as a child form in a mdiparent form every thing works fine. but when i try load a already loaded form it gives an error Cannot access a disposed object. Object name: '<Form Name>'. Here is the code.... Private Sub LoadPage(ByVal formToLoad As Form, ByVal Icon As...